All Write, Already!

Why am I snapping at you over it?  Well, why's the situation always focused on you, and why does just saying that make me feel like an ass?  I've got my own things going on.  I've got my own recursive guilt spirals that I have to deal with, with another layered on top for finding someone unconnected to help me deal with those.  And you're coming down on me for snapping over something going really wrong?  When you contacted me?  Maybe I'm snapping because I was trying to deal on my own.  Maybe I'm snapping because the entire reason I wasn't reaching out was because I didn't want to bite someone's head off when they're innocent of the wrongdoing.  Maybe it's because getting over the shock of things needs a degree of detachment for me.

So back up off, alright?  I'll help you deal with the things you need.  Let me decide how I need to deal with my own baggage.